Trauma
What the hell?
Helping to prevent stuff from happening for over 30 years.
There are so many ways you can say no, that don't involve physical or emotional damage to another human being. Gauge your response people there is no need to swat a fly with an a-bomb. Nor is there any way to gauge one person's intentions without actually speaking to them first.
I am currently reading Treasure Island, by Robert Lewis Stevenson. This is the story of a young boy who befriends who is terrorized by one sketchy male role model after another while searching for a buried treasure on an island, thus the title.